If you are lucky enough to kick back and enjoy the Fourth of July this year instead of hosting the big BBQ at your house, don't forget to show your appreciation to the person doing the entertaining this holiday.  We asked Lisa Friedman, Founder of Someone Spoil Me, a new online resource for giving and getting fabulous gifts to share some last minute etiquette tips and fun gift ideas. 

1. RSVP. It may sound obvious, but sometimes in our busy lives, we drop the ball on this one.  When people go out of their way to invite you to their party, you must respond.  Friedman says, "You CANNOT just ignore the invite and you certainly CANNOT just attend the party."  And when you RSVP, make sure you are clear on the number of people attending with you.  Don't burden your host with last minute guests unless you have cleared it with her or him.

2. Don't forget a gift.  Since the host is "hosting" a party, it's appropriate to bring something that she can easily use at the party.  If you've already asked what she needs and she says she has the menu under control, Friedman offers these creative ways to show your appreciation from the Someone Spoil Me Fourth of July Gift Guide.  Instead of flowers, how aboutthese adorable cookies in an attractive tin or red white & blue cupcakes that she can simply set on the table?  The patriotic lollipops above can be also be used as a centerpiece or to decorate a side table. And she advises, if you opt for a pretty bouquet of flowers, bring them in a vase so your host isn't scrambling to find something to put them in.

3. Remember, you are the guest. While you may think that there is a better way to set up the dessert table or grill the burgers, remember that this is not your party.  Friedman says, "Don't be a backseat driver."  But do offer to help clean up.

4. Don't overstay your welcome. While Fourth of July parties do not typically have a definite ending time, remember that the host has been preparing all morning and is probably pretty tired.  Our expert says, "Respect her and gracefully make your exit before your children get cranky."  Unless, of course, you plan on helping him or her straighten up after the party.

Happy Independence Day!